taking control in the bedroom: my personal tips

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Hey everyone! Let’s dive into how to be dominant in bed. Trust me, it can totally transform your sex life! 😈

First off, start slow. I remember the first time I tried, I was nervous. No need to go hardcore right away. Start with small gestures like initiating kisses, touching him all over, or leading him to the bedroom. Once, I grabbed my boyfriend’s hand, led him to the bedroom, and started unbuckling his belt. Pushing him gently onto the bed was super effective and hot! 🔥

Light bondage is a great next step. I tied my boyfriend’s wrists with a silk scarf once – soft and comfy. After binding his hands, I slowly ran my fingers over his body, teasing him. Watching him squirm with anticipation was so fun!

Blindfolds can heighten the senses. I once covered his eyes with a soft blindfold and used a feather to trace his skin. He was trembling with every touch, totally on edge.

Now, giving commands is where it gets interesting. Start simple. I once told him to kneel and kiss my feet. Seeing him obey was such a power rush. Another time, I had him put his hands behind his back and stay still while I whispered, “You can only move when I say so.” His reaction? Mind blown! 🤯

Then we got a bit more daring. I told him to loudly say what he wanted me to do to him. It was both fun and revealing. Another time, I commanded, “You can’t cum until I say so.” Watching him struggle to hold back was insanely hot!

Role-playing adds another layer of fun. I dressed up as a sexy nurse once, and my boyfriend played the patient needing “special care.” 😂 We both got so into it, and it was unforgettable.

And BDSM? Hell yeah! We tried gentle dominance and submission. The key was setting a safe word to ensure comfort and consent. It was not just thrilling but also deepened our trust and intimacy. Giving simple commands like having him close his eyes and follow my instructions built a tight bond.

Being dominant in bed is all about confidence, communication, and willingness to explore. Take it slow, stay safe, and have fun!

Have you tried these tips? Got any wild stories or experiences? Share in the comments below! Let’s chat! 😈🔥

Scientific source: Journal of Sexual Medicine

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