Hey everyone! Let’s dive into how I went from “no way” to giving anal sex a try. Trust me, it’s been a journey! 😈
Initially, I was totally against the idea of anal sex—super scared and unsure. But after lots of chats with my boyfriend, I got curious. He was super understanding, never pushy, just sharing his thoughts and feelings.
We started with sensory play. He used feathers and ice cubes to tease my body. That tingly and exciting feeling was everything! Then, he suggested exploring with a finger. I was nervous, but he was gentle, using plenty of lube, and slowly inserted a finger. We agreed on “pineapple” as our safe word. If I felt uncomfortable, I’d say it, and he’d stop immediately. This made me feel super safe, and I started to enjoy the new sensations.
When he first inserted his finger, he did it so slowly, letting me get used to the feeling. At first, it felt strange—there was a slight stretch and some discomfort. But as he moved gently and added more lube, I started to relax and even enjoy it.
Finally, I decided to try full-on anal sex. We used lots of thick, water-based lube and took it slow. We confirmed “pineapple” as our safe word again. As he slowly pushed in, I felt a stretch, almost like being pulled open, which was a bit intense. But he was super patient, and soon the initial discomfort faded. Instead of pain, I felt a deep, full sensation—a mix of being completely filled and totally conquered. It was intense and left me feeling a new level of closeness and trust.
Going from totally against it to being willing to try was all about communication, trust, and patience. If you’ve had similar experiences or questions, drop them in the comments! Let’s chat! 😈🔥
Scientific source: Journal of Sexual Medicine
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