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once believed that, apart from Amazon warehouses, I had the most BDSM tools .I ordered two rows of stainless steel shelves for my living room to display my samples and goods, making…
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I met my Dom three years ago on a dating app, and we officially started our relationship two years ago. I am indecisive and have struggled with depression for years. He, on…
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On the world’s most famous BDSM forum, Fetlife, there’s a group called “FinDoms and Paypigs.” In plain terms, it’s the “Mistresses and Their ATM Slaves” group. Here, “Mistresses” post their bills daily,…
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Sex in Zentai Back in 2010, Bob, a 25-year-old programmer from California, was feeling frustrated. He posted on a forum about his sexual issues: “I’ve tried everything, but I get too nervous…
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We often use the concept of pleasure to explain why someone engages in BDSM activities. For instance, someone might enjoy being spanked or tied up, finding these activities pleasurable, and thus seeks…
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I once participated in a discussion in a BDSM community group. During the discussion, some people linked male subs with derogatory terms like “worthless,” “beast,” “female supremacy,” and the notion that male…
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The first time I heard the term “aftercare” was when I had a girlfriend who shared an article with me. Along with the article, she bought a bottle of essential oil recommended…
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Understanding the Line Between BDSM and Violence A reader recently left a comment asking, “Can you explain the difference between BDSM and violence?” They had found an S, but felt uncomfortable during…
